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Wednesday, January 03, 2007,1:01 AM
* r we really suitable *
tomorrow is my dear's first day of work in a new enviroment..
hope everything will go smoothly for him..
dun change job again~
i understand he kanna "poach" & e new job's pay is higher.. but less than a yr this is his 3rd job liaoz.. it doesn't seem to reflect gd on his resume next time..
i heard from dear one of e couple in his click of friends had broken up.. they had been together for like 8yrs++ & been through lots of ups & downs together.. they also shared a car together which is goin to be sold away & still have to pay like 8k..!!~
i aksed dear him if he knows e reason.. he said it's e guy who broke up with e girl.. reason because e girl wants this & that which e guy cannot afford.. so i asked "like what.." coz i know as compared to e guy.. e girl will be in a better financial position to get e tings she want.. dear replied that she want house.. want nicely revonated etc.. which e guy can't afford so he decided to end e r.ship.. i really felt that it's a waste to breakup due to this reason..
& dear added "cabin crew ma.. wat also want..
same as u.." >_< hey.. it's not cabin crew or wat lor i wanna correct.. tell mi.. which girl dun want to get married.. dun want her own house.. dun want to "er ren shi jie" after married..
anyway dear can't get my pt lar.. he say by 30 den get house aso can.. not say dun want to buy a house of our own.. by den e honeymoon period is already over.. to get a house is just another process.. coz got kids liaoz so need house lor.. if can afford as long as be thrifty abit.. y dun want to get a house of our own.. i den dun want to stay with his parents.. not that they r not gd to me or wat.. one reason is ya "er ren shi jie".. another is bcoz of cleanliness which i dun want to elaborate.. anyway i just DUN WANT..
this really led mi thinkin.. will we end up e same way as them afew yrs down e road.. becoz we cannot compromise.. somehow i feel that our love has faded liaoz.. yes.. we still spend time together.. but not quality time.. sometimes i also feel that we both rather go out with our friends rather den meetin each other.. but maybe due to "xi guan" we still meetup.. i believe we still love each other but not as much liaoz.. little little sweet actions have gradually disappeared from our daily life.. not only him.. i admit mi too.. this few yrs would be a test of our r.ship.. whether we can stay faithful without each other around.. whether we will change due to all e clashes in schedule..
maybe this few wks we r broke.. so we got no $ to go out.. hence i feel this way.. i really dunno.. somwhow i just remembered he stopped talkin abt ROMing this yr.. anyway i think he got no $ to propose & we're not ready yet too.. i always told him i tot yr 2008 would be a wiser choice as we should be more financially stable by den.. & i dun want to ROM next yr (which is this yr now).. but who knows how things will be by den.. somehow dunno when e topic just ended without a conclusion.. n now this thought came to my mind.. maybe he realised i m not e one afterall..?? *gers r strange animals*
this is something i saw from a friend's blog.. n i really love it.. =) Our love is like a flower.. It needs the sun and the rain to grow.. The sun is the happiness we share.. The rain is the tears we cry.. Hopefully some sun and rain will make it grow stronger and stronger..
datz all~
*muackz*
the girl who is blessed with a bunch of great friends.. =)